8 Bondage Tips For Beginners

Posted by ma-admin
Posted: December 2, 2014

1. Safety First

Gag

Make sure you both agree on a safe word. It’s essential. It’s a way for the submissive to say ‘stop!’ when it becomes a bit too much to handle. Try not to choose words you would use when having sex though. Choose something out of the ordinary. Something that you’d never use during sex. If you end up veering towards being a little more hardcore and are using gags and bounds, choose a safe signal for you to use instead.

2. No Rules

no rules

The fun thing about bondage is that there are no rules! You both make the rules together, so you can make it as soft or as hardcore as you want.

3. Avoid Turn-Off’s

turn offs

Before talking filthy and dirty, make sure the words you’re using aren’t a turn off. When you’re immersed in sex, it’s easy to kill the mood, so make sure you’re not using words your submissive finds offensive or off putting.

4. Be Prepared

be prepared

Keep scissors handy incase the rope is not easy to untie and your submissive wants to be released. The same goes for any bondage equipment you use. If you’re using handcuffs, keep two keys nearby so your submissive can be released if they need to be. The last thing you want to do is lose the keys, a-la Chandler from ‘Friends’, where you end up getting handcuffed to the chair in an office for the whole day! Or maybe you do 😉

5. Softly Does It

softly does it

Take it slow. Don’t go straight into whips and gags. It will be less uncomfortable and scary if you take it step by step. Start off with a blindfold & handcuffs, they’ll bring excitement and be a big turn on for him, or for her.

6. What To Wear

what to wear

There’s no rules to what to wear, it depends if you want to go all out or not. It’s just as sexy looking at a woman wearing lace lingerie, tied up, with a blindfold and having no control, than wearing a tight PVC short dress. It’s whatever you feel most comfortable and sexy in, and of course, what your man will find a big turn on too.

7. Be Sober

be sober

Although it’s a lot more tempting to take it a step or two further when you’re in the tipsy zone, and makes you feel loads more confident and sexy. It’s not the best idea when you’re going to try bondage as you might not realise not tight you have tied knots, or restrained your submissive. It’s hard to establish the submissive’s comfort levels in an accurate way.

8. Equipment

equipment

You can use what ever equipment you want. For a beginner, we would suggest going for a softer touch; Handcuffs, Blindfolds & maybe feather tickler to tease your submissive with.



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