Men’s Favourite Sexual Fantasies

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If you look at any research paper on the subject and they will give you a percentage of how many men indulge in sexual fantasies such as affair dating or cheating, usually in the region of 70% to 80%. However, when dealing with real people who are not actively being queried or polled, the actual number rests more closely at 100%. This is as it should be. Sexual fantasising is a form of expression in healthy males that is perfectly normal. Nevertheless, this doesn’t mean that all men are comfortable admitting to it or sharing this information, but do you think that stopped us asking? Here’s what we found were the most common fantasies for men.

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Warm Up the Winter with Affair Dating

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So the nights are drawing in and before too long we’ll be facing another several months of the seemingly never ending British winter. You know the score, leaving home when it’s still dark in the morning only to wistfully spend the day staring out the window as the light draws in before five o’clock. Depressing isn’t it? Getting home feeling more tired than usual because it is pitch black, cold and invariably drizzling with rain. It’s even worse if you get home to find your partner equally irritable, as it’s no secret that relationships tend to feel the strain during winter months much more than they do in the joyful summertime. Sex and affection may dry up, then there’s the stress of Christmas presents and how to pay for them all, and then the prospect of a new year filled with yet more of perpetual drudgery. Suddenly the idea of having an affair through an affair dating site doesn’t seem so bad. Read More

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5 Motivations That Fuel a Marital Affair

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In today’s modern world, with rumours of high profile celebrity hook-ups and the ability to easily share our own photos with a secret friend, it can often seem like sex, or at the very least some innocent snogging, is on everyone’s mind. With such thoughts in mind, today we’ll be exploring five common reasons why men and women start an affair. For each reason, we’ll look a little bit at the differences between the sexes to better understand what gets everyone ready to dive under the covers with someone other than their spouse.

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1. The state of a marriage
Marriages, like people, come in all shapes and sizes, strengths and passions. While it might seem odd, often times for men, the best periods in their marriage coincides with their desire to get in the sack with someone else. During these times of marital strength, men are more often likely to feel confident and at their best. Increased confidence gives them that necessary boost to talk to the cute girl down the hall or the hot barmaid down the local. However, for women, the opposite is often true. When their husbands aren’t hitting the mark, it’s tempting to seek out a stronger candidate who can provide that sense of quality that they might not be getting at home.

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Is Your Married Affair Leading to More than Just Sex

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You’ve been in an extramarital affair that has been based upon mutual sexual attraction for some time, but something has changed.  For some reason you don’t have the same feelings for your man (if you are having an affair with a married man).  You may wonder what is happening.  Could it be possible that your affair is becoming about more than just sex? There are some tell-tale signs that may signal the sexy romps with your married partner are transforming into a different kind of marital affair that you may not have intended on having.

How to distinguish the sex only affair
These married affairs are mainly based upon sex and lust with little emotional attachment between the partners. The relationship can be intense, particularly in the beginning, but the fire is usually short in duration and fizzles out over time.  Sex only marital affairs couples don’t usually have a lot to talk about and go on with their own separate and private lives with the exception of their intimate rendezvous meetings.   Read More

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Why We Cheat

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In today’s world, cheating is not uncommon.  In fact, according to a report released in 2013, approximately 44 percent of marriages in the UK have been effected by married affair dating.  So, if almost no one enters into a marriage with the intent of cheating on their spouse later, why do so many people end up involving adult dating?  Let’s explore the most common reasons people seek relationships outside of their marriage.

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  • Let’s start with sex 

For most men, sex is a huge motivating factor.  However, there are more reasons than simply not getting enough at home.  In some instances, they want to try something different and they don’t think their partner would be willing to accommodate their desires.  For others, particularly those in a long term relationship, there is a longing to have sex with somebody different.  There are also times when a man engages in an affair merely because the opportunity presents itself.

For most women, sex is not their primary reason for engaging in a romance on the side.  Although, there are women who are in it only for the sexual thrill, others are looking to fill an emotional void. 

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Affair Dating On Social Media? The Biggest Mistake!

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Affair dating is supposed to be hot, exciting, fulfilling and most importantly discreet! However, beginning and conducting an affair dating primarily on a social media site, just about ensures the whole world has the potential to hear about it. Many people don’t intend to meet the person that they chat to on Twitter or Facebook, but even having an on-line, no real-life contact affair can have devastating effects on your life.

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The Kids See It

So you have been friended by a friend-of-a-friend-of-Aunt-Susie’s-ex-hairdresser and you start to engage in some light banter. They seem interesting enough, maybe even sharing some of your own likes and dislikes. Before you know it you’re instant messaging them and, as things progress, downloading the social media app on your smart phone so you won’t miss any of their messages. Trouble is neither are the kids. In today’s fast-paced world you can just about guarantee that at some point you are going to lay your phone down or leave your computer screen on, and the kids will see hot messages being exchanged between you and someone who isn’t their other parent. Bad idea! Read More

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An Affair with the Boss: Sexual Dynamite and Career Suicide

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Should you have an affair with your boss? We look over what the implications are and compare them to having an affair with the no strings attached members on Marital Affair.

So, you’re sitting at a hotel bar with a couple of co-workers and your boss. You’re hundreds of miles from home, and you’ve just nailed a presentation that brought a multimillion pound contract to your firm. You did the research, and your delivery brought it home. In the morning, you’re hopping on a plane back home, but for the time being, the four of you are sharing a magnum of champagne, savouring the moment.

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Then, the two other co-workers look at their mobile phones and wander off toward the lift, a little unsteady but ready to go upstairs and call their wives. You still have half a glass of bubbly to down, and when you turn to look at your boss, you notice — not for the first time — how deep blue her eyes are. Her charcoal grey suit fits her perfectly. Suddenly, you notice that she’s staring back with an inquisitive smile. You open your mouth to excuse yourself for the night, but suddenly you notice her hand on your thigh.

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“Why Are You Late?” Know the Excuse Before You Get There

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When you’re having an affair, you can find yourself not getting home when you should. You really want to hook-up with them, but it interferes with your schedule. So you decide to just not head home like you are supposed to. If you don’t prepare yourself with a solid excuse, your secret affair risks exposure. Here are some ideas that are sure to keep you out of the hot seat when you go missing from home.

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Believability is your only friend

Your excuse needs to be believable. You need to make up an excuse that would actually take up the length of time that you were missing. Getting stuck in traffic, helping someone with a flat tyre, or you just lost track of time may not always satisfy the person at home. Try excuses like this:

• Come in with flowers and say ‘I had to hunt all over town to get these’.

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What does your job say about your fidelity?

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Did you know that certain sectors of the employment industry are more likely to cheat on their partners than others? Research has shown that those involved in extracurricular activity are more likely to come from the higher ranges of the salary scale.

This probably isn’t that surprising when you think of some of the financial implications that go along with having an affair in 21st century. After all, no one goes to the trouble of having an affair just to get the same humdrum routine that they can find at home now do they? No, when it comes to having an affair, and doing things properly, having a few quid on the hip is always going to come in handy. Champagne, hotels – some may even splash out on foreign travel – all cost money. So which profession puts it about the most? Let’s take a look in reverse order.

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Why affairs can help save your marriage

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Many people see affairs as marriage breakers. No one has any sympathy for the adulterer, nor do they try to understand why the infidelity occurred in the first place. However, the mere fact that someone has had an affair can actually save a marriage instead of harm it.

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In what ways can an affair help a marriage?

Your affair can add a new energy to your marriage. There comes a point in a marriage where people can begin to stagnate. They may feel that they are purely going through the motions; they’re just not happy or content – they are just there, not giving their all in a relationship. This may be because they do not have a strong emotional connection for the marriage anymore, but quite often it can be that they just need to spice things up a bit, and get some of their old energy back. An affair can be therapeutic to the person who feels this way. It will give them clarity and the ability to jolt themselves out of their inertia.

The second reason an affair can actually help your marriage is the fact that it shows you that there is something missing in your marriage. Good people cheat because they are lacking a fundamental need from their partner. This lack can be emotional, physical or a combination of both. There are four types of infidelity. What type of infidelity you partake in can help guide you to why you are cheating.

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