Signs You Need a New Married Dating Partner

Posted by | Married Dating


Some people who look for a physical relationship outside of their marriage seek out one-night stands or casual sex with many different people, while others prefer to have a sex with just one person. There are pros to cons to each and what suits one person will not suit the next. If your preference is to have just one married dating partner over a period of time, it might be something that does not last forever.

If you find yourself in this situation, there are some signs to watch out for that may indicate that it is time to find someone new: Read More

Sure-fire Ways to Spot the Spark of an Affair

Posted by | Adult Dating, Affair Dating


Chemistry is a tricky thing to nail, and you may only find it a few times in your life. So, if you do happen upon it, savour every minute. Some people have been so long without chemistry, they can’t even recognise it. Here are a few sure-fire ways to spot to sparks while you are adult dating:

You’re both laughing a lot

When there’s chemistry, everything is fun and funny. The bread arrives at your table, and it’s a hoot. Someone’s phone rings, and you’re giggling about it. You can just tell when laughter fills your ears that something special is happening.

You forget about what you’re doing

You might notice that the meal you have on the stove gets burnt, your food doesn’t get eaten and remains cold on the plate in front of you or you forget to leave for the movie on time. You’re just too engrossed in each other to worry about anything else! Take advantage of it and see where it can lead.

You’re touching each other

A couple with electrifying chemistry are bound to touch each other, but when you’re still getting to know one another at the start of your affair, the touching may be minimal at first. However, you’ll know that sparks are sailing when you are tapping and gesturing at each other freely within a few minutes of talking. She might pat your arm or brush some lint off of your shoulder. You might get an eyelash off of her cheek for her or help her down a step. Touching is one of the best signs out there, and it might lead to even more touching very soon.

You’re both smiling

Smiles are a really good sign, just like laughing is. But, smiles stay. You know there’s something special going on when you just can’t help but smile. This is true when you’re together, but it’s also true when you leave each other’s sides. If she leaves and you can’t get the smile off your face, that’s a big hint that chemistry is happening.

Time flies and you don’t want the night to end

Finally, when you just can’t stand the thought of leaving this person sitting in front of you, there must be the same feeling for her. People don’t get super excited about each other unless there is mutual admiration there. This means that if you are really hitting it off with someone else, they are likely hitting it off with you too. Your small talk is easy and the flow is great, you’re both happy and you don’t want the meet-up to end. These are all signs that something special is happening between you two. Cultivate it, and take things to the next step. Go in for the kiss, or perhaps something more!

Experimenting with BDSM with an Adult Dating Partner

Posted by | Adult Dating, Affair Dating, Discreet Affair, Extramarital Affair


A common reason why people want to have an affair is that they are dissatisfied with their sex life and they want to experiment with new sex acts and fulfil their fantasies. So, one reason they may turn to married dating sites is to try BDSM.

What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for bondage, domination and sadomasochism. While these types of sex acts were once a taboo subject, they are now openly discussed, and more people are willing to give it a go. One reason for this could be the popularity of the book ’50 Shades of Grey’, as this raised awareness of the subject and enticed readers into trying new things with their partners.

Finding Someone to Share BDSM Experiences

An affair dating site is the perfect place to look for someone to share your BDSM fantasy with. Lots of the other members of adult dating sites are open-minded people who are willing to experiment sexually. Some people will openly write in their profiles what they are willing to try and what their own sexual preferences are.

If you find someone who you are attracted to based on their profile information and photograph, but they haven’t stated what they are expecting from the married dating site, you might have to dig a little deeper to find out if they are a good match for you. It is possible to find out more about them by sending a message and waiting to see if they get back to you.

Boundaries and Safety

When you meet a partner to try BDSM with via an affair dating site, boundaries and safety are two important issues. Each of you will have limitations, and there are some acts that they may be unwilling to participate in. Therefore, it is vital that you are both clear on what is and what is not acceptable before beginning the affair.

One safeguard that couples can put in place is a safe word that they can use when they want things to stop. Setting these boundaries is essential for the physical and emotional wellbeing of you both, and to make sure both parties enjoy the experience equally. As with any casual sex with a married dating partner, sexual health is also a concern and you should take sensible measures to prevent pregnancy and the transmission of sexually transmitted infections.

Have Fun

Married dating should be a fun experience for all those involved. So long as you choose a partner that is fully aware of your sexual preferences and is willing to go along for the ride, you both should have a fun time. If you find that you are no longer having fun indulging in BDSM with your affair dating partner, then perhaps it is time to move on.

Trying new experiences is a common reason for people joining married dating sites, and BDSM is something that many people are interested in experimenting with. The physical, emotional and sexual well being of all participants should be of primary concern, though. However, if everyone concerned is happy, then this can be something really fun to experiment with.


Open Marriages and Married Dating

Posted by | Adult Dating, Married, Married but Looking, Married Dating, Married Women


Not all marriages are the same, and what suits one couple will not suit the next. Society usually expects that once a couple is married, they will remain faithful to each other throughout the duration of that marriage. However, a monogamous relationship is not for everyone and many couples want a more varied sex life than this type of relationship has to offer. In these situations, joining a married dating site is something that suits both partners. Read More


Personality Traits People Look for on Married Dating Sites

Posted by | Married, Married but Looking, Married Dating, Married Women


There are many different things that people look for in a person they want to have an affair with. A lot of this comes down to the physical and sexual attraction you feel for each other. However, there are also some personality traits that people want their married dating partner to have and some of these are as follows:

A Fun Sense of Humour

Having a fun side and a good sense of humour are probably the two traits that people find most desirable when looking for partners on an affair dating site. People want to have a good time when they are having an affair, so they won’t want to meet up with someone who is miserable. To attract other members of a married dating site, try to show your fun side and your sense of humour in both your profile and the messages that you send.
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Five Things Everyone Embarking On An Affair Must Do

Posted by | Adult Dating, Discreet Affair, Extramarital Affair


If you’ve finally decided to join the millions of people worldwide who are enjoying a little extramarital fun you’ll probably be wondering what you need to do to ensure success. You could certainly dive straight in and learn by your mistakes, but why bother with mistakes at all when you have us to help you make the most from your first illicit encounter?

1) Just anyone won’t do

While you may be eager to indulge in a little fun away from the mundane confines of your marriage, it’s important not to rush. Choosing the right person for you is a vital ingredient in the recipe of sexy affair success, but it isn’t always easy. The first step is always their profile. If you find it engaging and they meet your criteria for discretion and availability then you can move on to the next step.

2) Messaging

Naturally, you’ll want a bit of back and forth before you decide whether or not you want to meet up or not. While this may seem obvious it is worth emphasising the importance of using the chat function of the adult dating website you are using rather than jumping straight into emails and texts. The reason for this is discretion. Both text messages and emails can easily be read by your other half whereas the online correspondence that you have via the site will be nice and private – perfect! Read More

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5 Tantalising Tips For Role Playing With Your Adult Dating Partner

Posted by | Adult Dating


Let’s face it; the vast majority of people who indulge in a little extramarital action are in it to add a little spice to their lives. They’re bored with the same old same old. They want to inject a little something into their sex lives in order to get the thrills they once knew or to fulfil a long held fantasy that has consumed their minds for what seems like forever.

Thankfully, with the help of a willing adult dating partner, these dreams can become a reality when you indulge in a little role-play. However, many of us simply don’t know how to broach the subject in order to get what we want from our discreet sexual encounters, but fear not – we’re here to help. Here are our top five tips for getting your role-playing action down to a fine art, let’s dive in: Read More

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One-Night Stands: Are They Right For You?

Posted by | Adult Dating, Adult Personals, Affair Dating, Married but Looking


Ah, one-night stands. There’s no more misunderstood part of the whole adult dating scene than the age old fling and forget. Why this particular way of getting your rocks off proves to be so difficult for the majority of us to get our heads around is unsurprising when you think about it.

Media bias towards the sanctity of marriage, the way our friends speak of others who indulge in the practise and our upbringings can all influence the way we feel about the prospect of a one-night stand. So, how do we decide if they are right for us, or if we should avoid them like the proverbial plague? Let’s take a look at a few pointers: Read More

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Why Adult Personals Sites are the Easiest Way to Get Laid

Posted by | Adult Dating, Adult Personals, Affair Dating, Discreet Affair, Extramarital Affair, Married but Looking, Married Dating


Whether you are in a relationship or currently single, if you like the idea of casual sex, then an adult personals site is a great choice for you. In fact, it is probably the quickest and easiest way for you to get laid. Let’s take a look at why that’s the case. Read More

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