If you’ve finally decided to join the millions of people worldwide who are enjoying a little extramarital fun you’ll probably be wondering what you need to do to ensure success with marital affair. You could certainly dive straight in and learn by your mistakes, but why bother with mistakes at all when you have us to help you make the most from your first illicit encounter?
1) Just anyone won’t do
While you may be eager to indulge in a little fun away from the mundane confines of your marriage, it’s important not to rush. Choosing the right person for you is a vital ingredient in the recipe of sexy affair success, but it isn’t always easy. The first step is always their profile. If you find it engaging and they meet your criteria for discretion and availability then you can move on to the next step.
Naturally, you’ll want a bit of back and forth before you decide whether or not you want to meet up or not. While this may seem obvious it is worth emphasising the importance of using the chat function of the adult dating website you are using rather than jumping straight into emails and texts. The reason for this is discretion. Both text messages and emails can easily be read by your other half whereas the online correspondence that you have via the site will be nice and private – perfect!
3) What to share?
Once you get chatting it’s normal to want to find out a little more about each other. However, it’s important to remember that this is a fun fling and should be treated as such. Try not to divulge too much information, especially details that could land you in hot water further down the line. Keep things like home phone numbers and your address well out of the conversation, why risk getting caught when you don’t have to?
4) Selecting a venue
Now you’ve got to the stage we’re you’re sure you’ve found the right person for your very first illicit encounter – how exciting is that! The next stage in the game is to choose where you are going to meet. Selecting somewhere public for your first meeting is essential, but it’s also important to remember not to choose a location that is frequented by anyone you know. Discretion is key here so select a public place, but one that is reasonably quiet for your first meeting
5) Be safe, not sorry
Everything has gone according to plan, and now you are ready for the big moment you’ve both been waiting for. It can be very easy to get caught up in the moment, but you must always remember to act in a responsible manner. Always insist on using a condom when you embark on a relationship outside of your marriage – the last thing anyone wants is to find out that there will be more just happy memories lingering around after the event!